How to Love Your Vulva
People living in the dilemma of being incompetent due to their unpleasant vulva are one major issue in society. It’s something that people really don’t talk about. They feel disgusting due to how their vulva looks. They feel that if something is wrong with them if they are not normal. They don’t understand the fact that alike any other part of the body, vulvas can be different too, they can be in lots of different shapes, sizes, and colors. The labia (also known as the lips) can hang down or be barely visible. Some people can have a large clitoris that sticks out, for others it can be tucked away and tiny.
When we actually see, their perception of how a vulva looks is not wrong at all because they haven’t seen a lot of them, the most they have seen vulvas is in porn. But the truth is vulvas you see in porn aren’t real. Porn is often edited or ‘Photoshopped’ and actors have had surgeries, so it’s an unrealistic place to start if you’re wondering what is normal.
The Real Normal Vulva
If you really want to know what a normal vulva is, you should change the perspective of seeing it. It’s really important to understand and know your vulva and what is ‘normal’ for a vulva so that you can identify when there are any changes. There are many reasons and ways that vulvas can change and many of them can be associated with puberty or even hormone changes over the course of your menstrual cycle.
It’s really not normal for your vulva when the changes involve discomfort, pain, discharge, or smell. In all such cases, you should go to your school nurse or visit a sexual health clinic. There are a lot of Health professionals out there who are used to answering all such kinds of questions. You can talk to them very confidently.
It also Deserves
Despite all a vulva or vagina does for you: It expands to let penises enter you during sex. It cleans itself to keep you happy and usually itching free. And ya, how can we forget about childbirth, its the most important thing one can think of, it’s the only factor that prevails human existence, at least for now. So the least, you can do is to love and care for your vulva and we’ll share with you some of the ways to love your vulva and make yourself realize how beautiful its creation is.
The first one can start off with by buying super comfy and seductive underwear. Let your valva have some real comfort. This point is mentioned because there are cases when some of the women feel so disgusted due there vulvas that they don’t even wear underwear. One other good way to promote your vaginal health is consuming fruits, veggies, whole grains, and Greek yogurt.
True Meaning of Self-love
Another way can be keeping an eye on your vagina. Lots of women have never actually grabbed a mirror and gotten up enough with their vulvas. But keeping an eye on your vagina is actually very important, when you know, what’s normal for you, then you’ll be able to easily spot any potential problems down there. There are many ways to take care of your vulva or vagina, masturbation is also one them, this way can’t be skipped. Masturbate with the mirror, by that I mean looking into the mirror, not penetrating it unless you want to do that, if so, go ahead, go crazy, try new toys, try some lubes, why not.
And not, even for a sec, think negatively about it. Think how awesome and powerful it is and keep exposing yourself until you’re convinced that it is really great. Once you’ll understand, then you’ll really get to know the meaning of self-love and understand that you can’t go without it. It’s yours. Worship it!